Wednesday, March 06, 2013
WMW: Parenting is a Marathon
They also mention the leader of their working mothers' support group, "Erasmus B. Dragon."
Some days, my ass is draggin', so I can definitely identify.
Today's post is relevant to all parents, really, but given the pressure working moms often put on themselves to "do it all," I thought I'd share this gem of wisdom, which I can't even take credit for, as it is something my husband is reminding me all the time:
Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint.
Matt reminds me this whenever I feel guilty for taking time for myself, or when I hesitate to ask for help, or when I get really anxious over some issue that doesn't have to be solved in a day. Going "all out" at every single moment will only wear us out—and the "finish line" is 18, 21, 35, 50 years away!
We have to pace ourselves. Take the long view. And that means if you need to let hubby take the kids to gymnastics so you can have some solo scrapbooking time (as I did last night), or let the playroom stay messy for a few days, so be it. If your "ass is draggin'," you're not going to be the best mom, wife, or employee you can be.
There's no prize for doing it all. The real reward is enjoying the journey, and the best news is that we get to run the race together.